Lily Harford's Last
Request is a beautifully written story dealing with the controversial question
of assisted dying. Lily is in her 80s.
She has been a successful businesswoman and single mother. She was once full of
vitality and loving life. She had a beautiful home surrounded by memories. As
her dementia progresses, we see snippets of her past life as a young and vibrant
young woman.
Now her body is
racked with arthritis and her memory and faculties are diminishing.
Reluctantly, her
daughter Pauline feels it is time for Lily to move to assisted care at Blue
Vista.
As her dementia
gets worse Lily wants to die on her own terms before
She asks Donna to
help her end her life before dementia gets worse and she no longer recognises
her loved ones or at least partly care for herself. Donna feels for Lily and
understands the reasons for the request but explains, apart from it being
illegal, she couldn’t bring herself to do it. Lily then makes the same request
from Pauline who also explains she couldn’t help.
We know from the
beginning of the book someone does assist Lily but who was it?
Throughout the
story, Lily reflects on her past life, her short time with a loving husband and
gives us insight into the younger and very capable Lily.
There are four
other key characters in the story – Pauline (Lily’s daughter), Sam (Pauline’s
husband), Donna (one of Lily’s carers), and Frank who also lives at Blue Vista.
Pauline adores and
admires her mother but while she thinks she is doing the right thing for her mother;
feels she is abandoning her. Pauline has a responsible job as headmistress. Add
this to being a wife, mother and grandmother she is feeling the stress and
pressure.
Sam loves his wife, is a supportive husband, and adores his
mother-in-law. He is a wonderful character and does everything he can for Lily.
Donna is one of the caregivers at Blue Vista who has a
close bond with Lily. She loves her job and is a very caring person but because
of her broken marriage and childhood experiences lacks confidence in her
personal life. Her character is well developed and likable.
Frank is a resident
of Blue Vista who is also fond of Lily. He doesn’t feature a great deal in the
book but plays a key part in the twist at the end.
Joanna Buckley has
written her story with great sensitivity from the viewpoints of Lily Pauline
and Donna. All the characters seem real and easy to relate to.
At 72 I can relate to all three women – Lily with my
advancing years and wondering what the future holds; Pauline as a daughter
having to deal with my mother’s dementia as well as a mother and grandmother;
and Donna’s lack of confidence in my working life. All characters are real, believable,
and likable.
Lily Harford's Last
Request is Joanna Buckley’s first book and I look forward to reading her future
stories. It is a book I would not hesitate to recommend.
It would make an
excellent one for reading groups and has suggestions for discussion points at the
end of the book.
My thanks to NetGalley and Harlequin Australia for providing me
with a copy of this book for review purposes.
My
rating 5*
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